Tuesday, August 24, 2010
This post is not about me, i m not in stress, or maybe can say that i seldom put stress on myself even ppl trying to stress me out, but i just dont care, coz i m weird.
But Cheryl, i wonder why in the world there is a girl who have to handle so many stresses from so many different places.. well maybe she is more responsible then me so basically she take everything on her back, thats why i will never understand her situation..
From relationship, from work, from study, from money, from the puppy, and yea.. from her family...
I m not talking bad about her family here.. I know her family quite well since i hang out at her place very often.. and its been so many years i m seeing everything happened to her.. but sometimes i just dont understand the thinking of the "adult".. since in their eyes we are always a kid =.=
Cheryl's mom is a women who use to constantly change her mind, like every single minute.. There is been lots of times that we actually suffer from this.. Is like in the morning she granted Cheryl something and she go on follow the plan, but suddenly in the noon received a call from the mom and pull off every time... RED LIGHT!
so they start a fight...
Guys.. this not just happen once or twice.. but is 7,8,9,10 times.... For me its okay... i mean i m not the one who have to deal with it.. but for Cheryl.. imagine how stressful is it?
Well if its only for a small matter, changing mind is not a crime, nothing wrong from "not allowing" her to do something.. but not when we are already half way doing it or even almost done all the preparation work then only received the order to cancel... really drive us crazy sometimes.. Say la early if not allowed.. at least we dont waste our effort.. duh...
This happened when we move in to our current condo too. We are planning to shift out together since Dec 2008, we did lots of researching work on where to stay.. the price.. call up agent and everything... there is so many discussion involve with her parent, they think of buying the property instead of renting it... see lots of place.. tried so many different way see lots of diferent units..
Finally until April 2009 we found this place, me & cheryl view it a few times, she discuss with her mom about it, and till the last time we viewing it in the morning, at the stage of counting deposits and meeting the owner.. She called up her mom for the 101 times to confirm everything, the amount of rental, deposit to pay and the contract etc... its a GREEN LIGHT!! Everything is fine and at the evening of the day we meet up with the agent to make payment and signing contract, we are sitting in front of the agent and now the mom said :
"i think better not la"
WTF!!!!
Okay you dont have to know how we settled it, ofcoz she nearly gone collapse at that time, after 4 months working on something, and it can go this way at the end..
How stressful is it to handle things like that?
Again, changing mind is not a problem but please do it before ppl put effort on it.
And now, another big challenge is throwing on Cheryl by her family, she is now facing the biggest issue, not to give up 4 months of effort, but is to give up all the effort she put on the past few years to built up her studies, her relationship, her future and her life..
I dont understand, ya maybe in their opinion, they do that is for her good, but for a 25 years old Adult, she got her right to choose what she want for her future, and the family is suppose to support her, as long as what she did is not harmful to anyone, as long as she feel happy with it..
How many people get to work for what they really like? and since she found it, who cares about the salary? Hello! is not like they need her to work and bring home the salary and feed the whole family ok! Its just so happened that the profession she choose earn her big bucks, so what? Does it even matter??
Things become complicated now.. she is not happy if she listen to her parent and leave everything behind and go back penang.. definitely not the type of life she want.. Once go back and she is going to stuck in there forever.. but well.. she is not happy with her life now either! coz she got all the stress from her family!! gosh...
Cheryl's family love her very much, she is the only daughter, the love she get from her family is not lesser then you and me, i never deny that, but just the way they think and the way they trying to take control of her life is just so.... no comment..
A human life shouldnt be calculate as a business, there is never a "loss" in investing in her happiness, no matter what, earn lots of money to exchange am empty soul, i dont think its a profit anyway...
thats what i thought...
Damn she is regularly in depressed mood nowadays, and i become moody also when she is emo-ing, done my best to cheer her up but i think i m just not good in doing that... i do what i can.. and thats all..
So..
Wilson Kang, if you are reading this, pls come back fast, need help here...
Wifey, lets go Spa this weekend want?
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